Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Celebrate the Freedom to Love!



Here's to celebrating IDAHO (International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia) this May 17.
http://www.dayagainsthomophobia.org

A friend shared to me this link of how Singapore is taking part in it.  I only wish there was also a more visible way Pinoys can take part in the celebration.

Even Lady Gaga herself is participating.  Here's her quote on the event:

"That Humanity could find Togertherness. We are all different and it is that which makes us the same.  Be yourself, love who you are and be proud. You were born this way, baby."
I'm hoping to take part in the As I Am campaign.  Probably gonna tell Rocky about it once he wakes up.  While I may have had a long part of my life denying who I was and hating who I am, I am proud to have finally come to a point where I can celebrate being me and have no fears of whether or not the world will accept me.

I am me.
My name is Tobie Abad, and I am a bisexual, and I am not afraid to love who I love.
I only hope you can say you have the freedom to love too.


Monday, May 16, 2011

Jakey, if this is you, do more!

Chances that this pic is a photoshopped one?  Huge.
Likelihood I care?  None.
But unlike other blogs though that scream at people who raise the fact many pics are photoshopped fakies, I prefer if people openly talk about whether or not something is photoshopped, and actually WATCH the said movie the supposed naked screencap was taken from to see for sure.   Cause I know I saw that particular David Boreneaz  and I know he did strip down but never "flashed himself while holding a spent condom."

Truth matters.
Fantasties, while fun, are best informed ones.


Sunday, May 15, 2011

Geekwood: Ben and Hudson

While a larger majority of all my geekwood posts will focus on fictional hotties from videogames, comics, role-playing games and the like, this geekwood entry is being devoted to two people who deserve to be recognized for their actions.

Ben Cohen, a world-class English rugby athlete and absolute hottie, and Hudson Taylor, an American college wrestler, are both straight, drop-dead gorgeous and have dedicated their lives to standing up against homophobia and bullying.  

Hudson Taylor and Ben Cohen.  Shining examples of hot straight guys you can count on.

Sad but true, there are many straight AND gay people who can be open-minded towards having homosexual friends, but still remain afraid to speak up for gay rights and to stop gay bashing.    I know a few friends of mine who, while happy to be gay, are unwilling to take part in Pride marches and remain silent when homophobic jokes are bandied around.

And yes, Ben understands "smooth" is not necessary to be attractive as fuck!

So yes, thank you Ben and Hudson for being secure in your masculinity and being willing to speak up fro the many others who are too afraid (or will cite "logical" reasons) and remain silent.

Hudson on the other hand isn't afraid to trim the pit (although I prefer it hairy).

I remember some questioning the point of Pride marches and the like.  How they are all just "political" and not celebrations of diversity.  They seem to forget that yes, it IS political.  And it will also remain political until the day discrimination towards homosexuality comes to an end.  

No H8!

I don't personally also understand all this fear straight men have of being seen as attractive by other men.   Maybe I'm just too open-minded in the sense that I see anyone appreciating my attractiveness as a compliment, whether or not I find the other person appealing.  Beauty is beauty and to be seen as attractive, whether it be by a straight or homosexual man or woman, for me, is always a good thing.

But I guess some people just have issues.

*swoons*  for so many reasons.


So yes, thank you Ben and Hudson.  
You are shining examples of how one does not need to be gay to understand and speak out on how homophobia and bullying, especially in sports (which for some reason is deemed only for "straight" people by some).  Thank you!

Read more about them here.

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Okay It Works...

...I guess it just needed to grow a little bit more.




RRrrwwwaarrwww....

But yeah, let's hope it doesn't grow way too much like his friend over there.


Tee hee.

Saturday, April 30, 2011

Because The Bible Says So?


Really now.

Friday, April 29, 2011

Royal wedding? Meh. We need Equality

Let the rest of you celebrate this "royal" wedding.
All I care about right now is the fact that we still aren't allowed the same rights others have.

I'll cheer the "royal" wedding when gay marriage is made legal and recognized.  I do not support the idea we "common serfs" are not allowed the same rights.



It is only fair to want to be treated fairly.
I refuse to "see happiness" by just ignoring the reality for one day.
Those who enjoy it, good for you.   But please, don't try to convince me their wedding is something I should care about.  It is not going to happen.

Thursday, April 28, 2011

My my my...

...I should have studied at Colombia University!


Tee hee.

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