Oh Jakey, why do you do this to me?

 Looks like Jakey wasn't content to drop his shirt and go river crossing in Men vs Wild.  Here are some of his hot pictures while at the beach with his sister (who will not be appearing in this blog.)

Awww.. he's spitting.  (Yep, let's leave it at that.)

I still don't feel too happy of Jakey's buzz cut.  Plain and simple, Jakey looks far better for me whenever he lets his fuzziness take charge.  I do hope he starts growing back his hair in due time.

Awww don't feel shy.  You don't need to be the slender muscular jock look.
You're just fine, dear.

There's no denying how hot Jake has gotten over the years.  From his twinky Bubble Boy look to this policeman-inspired look, there's a primal appeal that Jakey can work when he chooses to do so.  But it is nice to know how this delicious hunk of man can be super baduy when he wants to be too.

Mwah mwah mwahugs!

Yes, yes, I love you too Jakey.

I don't mind sharing you with my Rocky.

Rocky ain't over Ryan

Because I know my partner, Rocky, isn't over Ryan.
:-)

This is for you, love.




Enjoy!

Someday.

Rocky and I will have our own chance.

I believe someday it will happen.

I believe someday the world will allow us to celebrate our love.

Just like New York has.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/portraits-of-gay-couples-just-married-in-new-york

Congratulations to you all!

Oh Tom.... Tom... Tom...

I Hardy knew you.

Still from The Warrior.

PG4M Question: Which should come first?

Sex, Love or Friendship?

GG and me developed friendship first.

We allowed each other to get to know one another.

We saw each others strengths and weaknesses.

We saw and shared each other's passions and interests.

Mind you, we already were having feelings for one another, but rather than let feelings take charge in the start, we gave each other a chance to recognize each other's differences and similarities.

The love that bloomed eventually grew so strong, we had to admit we didn't want to be just friends.

And now, we're still together, and still getting stronger.

Recommended movie: Shelter

If you let friendship form before sex, the love that is created is a strong and pure one. 

If you let sex come first before friendship, you'll confuse lust for love and eventually find yourself looking at other people, because you "think" you're in love again with someone else.

That's how I've seen it, that's how I've experienced it, and that's how I am honestly answering this question.

Sex does not equate a relationship.  Or love.

It is just an act, anyone can do, with the right skills.

But love.
And friendship.

This is sooo true.

Those things need to be given time to bloom.  To develop.

To strengthen.

And sex too soon can weaken the foundations that love and friendship take root on.

Gay-Straight Etiquette

My partner, Rocky, shared me this article today and I found it to be very enlightening.  I thought it may be best to share this link again here on my blog for any readers who may have found themselves tongue-tied in similar situations before.  The article is "" by Andrea Sachs, who interviews Steve Petrow who came up with "Complete Gay and Lesbain Manners" site.

http://healthland.time.com/2011/07/13/qa-etiquette-for-gays-lesbians-and-their-straight-friends/

Some of my favorite parts:

If it's O.K. for two straight people to hold hands in this place, there's no reason why that shouldn't be O.K. for us, as long as it's safe and you know that part of this is new to many folks. Some of that just takes time to become part of the landscape.

Read more: http://healthland.time.com/2011/07/13/qa-etiquette-for-gays-lesbians-and-their-straight-friends/#ixzz1S3jIuVpt

And

Not everybody who's gay wants to get married. But just about everybody who's gay wants the right to get married. And there is a difference there.

Read more: http://healthland.time.com/2011/07/13/qa-etiquette-for-gays-lesbians-and-their-straight-friends/#ixzz1S3jOBoTQ

Weekly Musing

from Brokeback Mountain

Found myself wanting to ask all my readers this week:

When was the last time you didn't have sex, but instead made love?

Trim, shave or wax?

Nice bonus bare feet too.

In one of our ongoing table top role-playing game chronicles, a serial killer dubbed The Clipper has been attacking people in the city.  His signature weapon is a pair of scissors or shears.    What if Clipper happened to be our dear ole Jakey?   Now that's one clipper I wouldn't mind showing up in my house.

Zac being human

Oh lookie.

The 4th of July celebrations brought out more than just patriotic Americans and fireworks.  It also brought out a Zac Efron who actually looks more human than a supposed Disney "genetic product."  Wearing a pair of REALLY low hanging army camo shorts, and a white sando, Zac Efron extruded masculinity and hotness without having to look like he had botox on his entire body.

Admittedly, Zac Efron was one of the Hollywood celebrities I always found extremely talented and yet did not rub me the right way physically.  There were elements of both his facial structure and his fashion sense which I truly found disturbing for a guy whose body was pretty impressively developed.

However, in these pics, we get a glimpse of Zac Efron being just another dude in the beach celebrating with his friends.  His unprepped up hairstyle, his down-to-earth (way too) low cut shorts, and his nonchalant expression just gave him the everyday boy appeal I felt he always had.

And just when you thought it couldn't get better, he opts to strip away his blue wife beater and reveal the lush growth of a love line underneath.  Seriously, with hairy nipples like that and a line that invites the tongue to discover what an Efron tastes like, I'm surprised he didn't carry himself this way more often.

So here's to hoping for more casual Zac Efron pictures to grace the web.  Even better, if he finds a reason to pose in a similar manner with Jake Gyllenhaal and Bear Grylls alongside him.  Now that would be a reason to stay at home and collate all the pictures one can find.

For now, though, Zac, keep the fuzz and celebrate.

We're celebrating with you, for sure.

Score another one for Bisexuality

After strange rumors about her having a penis, Lady Gaga finally settles where she stands on the LGBT spectrum.    In the August issue of Advocate magazine, she talks about the idiocy of some claiming she is using the LGBT community to boost her sales, and after shares a revealing set of words:

From Advocate:

“My love for my gay fans is just pure, authentic love for them as supporters of me from the beginning, and me feeling connected to their struggles as someone who is a part of their fight,” she says. “(That’s) one of the most ridiculous statements anyone can make about me.”

“I would say the top thing I think about every single day of my life, other than my fans, loving the music, and my family being healthy, is social justice and equality.”

When asked if she is an actual member of the LGBT community — “Yes” 

“The b letter,” Gaga answers, and lets out a giggle.

So yes, to all you crazy people who think bisexuality doesn't exist, looks like there now is a new standing icon for us bisexuals you cannot ignore.  Thank you Gaga!

Thank you, Kylie

Til you visit Manila again.

*hugs*

Check out: Baduy Pride!

Allow me to invite you all to Baduy Pride, http://www.baduypride.com/ a blog my partner, Rocky, and I have created in order to share and celebrate the joy of being Baduy! (Baduy = corny, cheesy, sappy, etc) Hope you guys start following the site!

See you there!

Brokeback Mountain 2?

Must.  Download.  HD.  Version.
RIVER.  Please let them cross a river.